I have realized that I am cranky lately and I don't like it at all. I do not like to fight and I do not like to argue, I especially do not like to raise my voice. I feel like sometimes I have to with Katelyn. She doesn't listen to me, if I reprimand her she says it right back to me in her sassy little voice. I am constantly telling her that I am the mother and she needs to treat me with respect. I am just frustrated.
Today we went to Costco and she was fighting with Preston in the double cart. Anyways there was this sweet old couple sitting next to us that felt the need to comment on every action my kids performed. "Oh she's going to drop that drink. Oh look at him wiggle, he's going to fall. Oh he just spit out his pizza." Thank you for the play by play. Then the little old lady asked me how I handled Preston at home. I replied that I have a high chair at home and he can run around freely so it's easy. Then she said mockingly that I need to have another baby. Give me a freaking break. Can't you tell by the look on my face that I am having a bad day, and I am on the brink of tears? I do want more children some day but honestly I don't know how people do it. Both of my children have very strong personalities, which can be good and bad. It's time to get serious and dive into the books I have purchased for ideas. Today I am trying not saying anything when she sass's me, just quietly taking her hand and putting her in time out. We'll see how it goes. Thanks for letting me vent.
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Oh little mama...I feel your pain. I've decided people will always have their opinions...which is cool...but you need to do whats best for you. I've decided 4 is my max. To some that may be a ton. To others that may not be enough. To me, my sanity depends on it remaining at that. Hang in there girl...vent all you want.
oh shoot! everyone does what is right for them and their family. no matter what any outsiders say......
sorry for the bad day! :(
I have a sassy pants, strong willed little girl too. Good luck, and let me know of any good tips you read about. :)
Kendra, have you watched The Nanny? Watch a few episodes and you'll feel better. You may even get some ideas on how to handle the kiddo's. Hugs!
Here is something that you might like http://www.ooeygooey.com/ Granted I Don't have children but I was a two-year old teacher for 4 years. I went to one of Lisa Murphy's (aka the ooey gooey lady) workshops last year and it was an AMAZING eye opener. So gives so much insight to how children behave and what they need, and some really awesome ideas for crafts. :)
Jed and I have decided that people are dumb :)... kidding... well kind of. Our little Dash is the busiest, most stubborn child I have ever seen. It has been a completely differenct experience than raising Carson at his age.
But, do watch The Nanny - it's a great reminder when you realize that your kids aren't that bad.
We should write a book with comebacks to respond to strangers "helpful" comments :) I personally think you're doing a wonderful job. I am always so impressed of how complimentary you are of your family. You are honest about life being hard - but it is so evident how much you love your family. You're great!
Ha ha...I keep thinking that a little girl would be fun, but all I hear about are the strong willed ones! Good thing they are cute or we would surely kill them some days! Continue venting on here...we love to hear the stories!
Hi there, not sure if you remember me from Kami's house but I sometimes read your blog :) Anyways just want you to know that you are not alone. I too have that same experience pretty much on a daily basis. The few things that have helped me are creating a sticker chart and rewarding her good behavior. but it doesn't always work, so we too try time outs. Hang in there, I know how frustrating and hard little ones are. Hopefully they grow out of it quickly :) Lynsay
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